am i the only one who finds it so fucking weird that big queer pages always post for trans and lesbian visibility days, but never for bi and ace visibility days
yall ALWAYS do this omfg. clairo, fletcher, now katseye. these women NEVER claimed to be lesbians, YOU projected that label onto them and then got butthurt when they turned out to be bi LIKE THEY SAID THEY WERE. stop headcanoning real people and getting mad when it isnt true!!
gonna get cricified for this by the biphobes but a woman can die having only dated/fucked men and still be bisexual. the requisite is that bi women are ATTRACTED to women, not that they've had romantic/sexual experiences w them. you can be attracted to women and never date one.
a tiktoker i follow posted a video about how shes nervous to post about being wlw because of how other influencers at events might perceive her and some really had the audacity to comment this, even when she explicitly mentioned having a bi flag in the video
again, if you hear bisexual and immediately think of a man-obsessed girl, then YOU are the one who's obsessed with men i hate to break it to you. also misogynistic bc you're centering a woman's attraction to men over their attraction to women 🤷♀️
to all the "bi women only date men" ppl out there: THIS is the problem. whenever a bi woman, like cynthia, dates a woman, you assume she's a lesbian. so ofc its gonna look to you as if bi women don't date women. your biphobia is distorting your perception of reality.
bisexuals have been telling yall that old style violent biphobia is back (from both outside and inside the queer community) yet yall refused to listen and said we were trying to "be oppressed" and "victimise" ourselves.