Most of you only focused on one part of the conversation. That the girl was “right” and “just wants the best for him.”
Yes, she may have meant well, but let’s not ignore the real pain of a man who has tried and tried and is still stuck.
Let me be real with you:
It’s not every
This has nothing to do with "poor man dey face issues."
This babe loves you, and you can't see it. You're not even listening to what she is saying. I could think of a thousand better responses than the nonsense you responded.
When communicating, check for intent. She was not
When a man is weak, he pays for love. He doesn’t even know his worth, even if he’s rich. He will worship the ground his woman walks on and monitor her up and down like our self-acclaimed 001, ‘Toto Police.’
You’ll learn the hard way, continue. You go think say having money
Women will sit with you while you’re broke and tell you to “stay strong,” “keep pushing,” and “don’t give up” all while hoarding millions in their bank account, nails done, wigs fresh, and bills paid.
Their version of support is mostly talk, not action.
But let the roles be
Let’s not even lie to ourselves.
A lot of women will say, “I’m just pushing him to do better because I love him.”
But deep down, they’re saying it because they’re scared of what it means for them if he stays broke.
Most of the time, it’s not just about you leveling up. It’s
Trading was never designed for the poor.
It was designed for the rich.
But it attracts the poor more than the rich.
That’s why 96% of traders fail.
They bring peanuts and expect millions.