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thessaly blue
@thessalyblue
oracle-clown // gothic mystic // a serval in lady’s clothing
New York, NY
Joined July 2022
- no one wants to talk about the fact that people who have tattoos and people who don't have tattoos are almost completely sexually segregated
- men tend to have a whole other secret side to them that ONLY comes out in an extended sexual relationship this hidden side can look a lot of different ways but is always in extreme tension with the self they display to the world which means…
- I have this sneaking suspicion that one-on-one talk therapy is doing a lot more harm to intimate relationships than any of us realize
- never ask them why they love you, why they want you. they never know. and tragically, cueing them to introspect about it destroys the passion. you are a symbol. a symbol subjected to rational inquiry is destroyed.
- do you think it’s possible to learn to be witty? I don’t mean in writing but in conversation, where processing speed matters
- at this point I NEED an intimate partner’s support in order to expand my creative efforts to any significant degree and I’m tired of the preachy “you have to find it in yourself first” platitudes. I’ve done so much. I can’t hold it alone anymore. plateau reached. 1/
- I had an ex-bf, Eric, who was a musical genius he toiled for yrs over hyper-maximalist, lore-backed, Mars Volta-style opuses that were truly stunning but he never signed to a label, didn't promote much, his music never caught on sometimes I wonder how many Erics are out there.
- it’s fascinating how people in a manic state are unable to recognize that they’re manic, even if the people around them are giving them all the reminders they *previously asked for* to notify them that they might be manic I wonder what it’s like from the inside…!
- Replying to @thessalybluewhy does a man bemoan that his potential love interest “has a past”? because he fears that her spirit has been broken by the shadows of other men. because he senses the shadow in himself, even if he can’t name it.
- Replying to @thessalybluethat women who love men often end up in a difficult position when the relationship breaks they know much more than they can share in polite company the man’s faults are stowed away in private, sordid realms, while the woman’s are distributed evenly across her personality
- yeah so I pretty strongly believe that it’s a man’s duty to sexually please his woman, and that this is a top priority above most other forms of energy exchange. I didn’t realize how strongly I believed this until recently, it felt like it was a wrong/shameful thing to say
- Lately I can't stop noticing how people summon up every single relationship in their life through a kind of mirror magic. Once you see it—really see it—it can drive you a little bit mad.
