Everybody wants to live in a laid back Mediterranean culture, nobody wants their repairman to show up 3 days late without any tools, look at the problem, say it’s not a problem, and leave
I was dating a flight attendant for a minute and she said “do you wanna know a secret? It doesn’t actually matter if you turn off your phone or electronics, none of the crew do at all”
And I found it so endearing that she thought this was like, an Insider Secret
biggest green flag i ever got with a girl: the first 5 days I hung out with her, my oura ring gave me notifications every day "You've spent more time than average in Relaxed and Restorative states today! Take note of what you've changed today that helped with that!"
i dated a girl once who put all of her skill points into making friends with big figures in the music scene - & now she's friends with a bunch of people who were big in that scene 10-15 years ago... & it seems like there's a lesson in there somewhere