girl if your sole reason of attention to the situation was because hes good looking thats kind of sad. he stands for something very important in modern day america and maybe you just dont get that
"look here homophobes!! i hate bisexuals too!! i invalidate their sexualities!! i choose not to educate myself too!! pick me!! choose me!! im a good queer i swear!!!"
“boy”, “man”, “girl”, etc. can all be used genderlessly. if you aren’t comfortable in your masculinity/femininity then that’s not the person addressing you’s problem 🤷♀️