I don't get how family can abandon you. It’s not a crime to have a different sexual preference. So what’s the point of calling it “family” when they act just like strangers? If they can’t support you when it matters most, how are they any different?
If you're mentally and financially fit to raise kids, then it really doesn't matter even if gay couples are raising them. Honestly, we've already seen how many straight couples don't deserve to have children.