it doesn't matter how much an adult talks to a minor. unless there's the intentional application of power dynamics with the aim to manipulate, then there won't be any grooming that would happen. grooming is a purposeful act.
like i was groomed and taken advantage as a child by an adult that barely talked to me for years, all he had to do was establish some power dynamic that made it hard for me to say and do anything then voila, he had me under his thumb for almost a decade (literally half my life)
y'all the fandom etiquette rules are made for YOUR comfort, especially "don't like, don't read" like 😭😭
to the eyes of incest shippers and the like you're just a random person on the internet that's annoying to them you're not doing shit to make them change their minds 😭l
Unwritten rules within fandom space all new fans should know.
Writing this because apparently the clashes within/between fandoms mostly happen bc new fans don't know how things work around here and/or blatantly ignoring them.