Girls β¦ I understood why they advise us to get married and have kids before 25. Because after that, our brain starts working, and the decision wonβt seem so reasonable anymore.
βBack then, marriage used to last.β
Yeah, because your grandma couldnβt open a bank account or file for divorce without a man. She had no rights and nowhere to go.
Jobs are stressful. So is unemployment. Not finding a partner is stressful. So is having one. Working in an office is stressful. So is working with your hands. Having 50 clients is stressful. So is having none. Life is full of trade-offs. Donβt romanticise options you donβt know.
My brother told me I was βweirdβ for saying I was gonna tell every girl that wants to date him to run. πππ£οΈSIR YOU HAVE 6 KIDS 4 BABYMOMS.
They weren't lying when they said you wake up one day and just don't care anymore. No warning, no dramatic shift, just a quiet, almost peaceful detachment.