Popping in to say I am indeed alive & well lol. I just wasn’t feeling my every thought being up for public debate no more 🫶🏽 (I am now unhinged on my burner)
But it was fun while it lasted!!!
My daddy had opened a laundromat and put my momma through law school. My brother bought my SIL a brand new house as his wedding gift. My BIL regularly balls out on my sister.
Don’t tell me my standards are unrealistic when the men closest to me are doing these things.
Man high self esteem is a life saver. Cause in the face of rejection, bad news, things meant to break me down, I really think I’m still worthy and going to win at this thing called life.
I literally do not care what folks do at their wedding as long as there is an open bar.
Also y’all wouldn’t leave a Jewish or Indian wedding if the folks started breaking out the Horah or Bhangra so plz
Folks are so accustomed to (and expect) Black women and girls being in positions of struggle and labor, that seeing them being “spoiled” is a huge issue.