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please consider helping Lissa, she's been dealt a wretched hand for the next few months. if you can contribute, i'll buy you something of comparable value from my fave trans leather worker @butchsystm / riverqueer dot com
vers with wound
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vers with wound
@sidhe_her
i'll dye my petticoats red and face them with yellow / and i'll tell all the boys: my own heart i will follow
Joined March 2022
- i had already been feeling nervous about this appointment, and seeing this sign in the waiting room did Not help
- i used to wish someone would step up and do a trans woman version of the whole menswear guy shtick. but no, i see now that you all would simply crucify her. just an absolute omelas child situation. i couldn't wish that on anyonelot of frustration at my belt post. my advice is really simple skinny brown dress belt, gold buckle wider black casual belt, silver buckle this will cover 90% of your outfits
- "we need more sober late-night queer spaces" im being the change. im lighting a candle instead of cursing the darkness. tonight is 18+ night at the science museum and i am prepared to eyefuck anyone who remotely looks like they might have a pronoun
- i just introduced myself to someone as beth, while wearing a skirt and a full beat, and got asked my pronouns. please just put me out of my misery now because im not gonna make it through pride month at this rate
- i did everything right. no amazon basics skirt, just wool slacks and a sensible sweater. hobbies: cooking, going for walks. i run windows and use a normal keyboard. and yet here we are: my boyfriend is making jokes about "new vegas". this is where respectability politics gets you
- (mom voice) ok sweetie go have fun, just remember to engage your core if you're about to be punched in the stomach, and keep your mouth closed if you're about to get slapped in the face. and if she wants to put her cigarette out on you, make sure she spits on you there firstare you meant to tense when a pretty gorl punches you in the stomach
- the biggest lesson i took from irl kink spaces: you can't be welcoming to everyone simultaneously. you can uninvite an abuser and deal with the fuss, or you can let them keep showing up, and you might not even notice how many other people quietly stop coming back...
- sorry, i thought his fics were hot, didn't realize he belonged to an oppressive aristocrat class, unfollowing now
- "tits or ass" bro her flinch response when i take her chin between gloved fingertips and gently tip it upward
- lotta guys in the qrt's not realizing that you can signal you're chill and safe by shrugging off lighthearted jokes at your expensethis hinge shit is easy
- Replying to @__snowingcatevery day I get up, slick back my hair, square up my shoulders, and clock in to my shift at the fumbling bad bitches factory
- was just sent this by an old friend who's a poli sci prof, do you think he's trying to flirt
