What about food, or cars, clothing? You're not preaching empathy, you're preaching communism. No one has a right to the fruits of someone else's labor.
The black community really has nothing to offer today. The music isn't even worth listening to anymore. Any man that can escape, needs to do so and never look back.
Men like you are the reason women believe they can put their hands on men without any repercussions. As it is with men, women need to understand there will be severe consequences for putting you hands on someone else.
Black women do not own black men. No amount of shame, insults or guilt will get them to accept less than from black women. If black women want top their men, they must learn to shut up and compete.
These dudes get far more respect in the black community than a man of character working a 9 to 5 supporting his family. The current state of the black community is evidence of my point.