We are talking about feeling unsafe not literally being unsafe, if something actually happened then this would be a valid conversation but your anxiety shouldn’t be the reason someone starves
This is also why we struggle to accept the idea that we have been sexually assaulted. I pray one day we recognise how we’ve dehumanised ourselves through this lense of sex
It is transactional though and that’s very important to acknowledge. Everyone knows relationships are transactional, men are told that they want sex and women are told that they want a provider. This should be pointed out and criticised