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@raisintinybabes
wife + mama to 3 heathens|| I mostly talk abt my kids but sometimes books too||
Bum fuck nowhere
Joined March 2022
- I have never understood the “I’m freshly postpartum and haven’t gotten to shower in multiple days” thing when mom has a partner that lives in the home w her and baby. Like that man rlly couldn’t hold the baby for 15 mins so you could go wash your ass…?
- Always irks my nerves seeing ppl continue having kids when their budgets and housing situations are already in dire straights. Like.. you can’t afford the kids you already have- WHYYYYY do you keep having more?????? You’ve already got 4 kids sharing a bedroom.
- I keep seeing the rocking chair tweet. And honestly? My biggest issue is how little conflict resolution skills ppl have before they decide to bring a child into a relationship. I can understand why the chair is important to him.
- This should be mandatory for that first DUI. Second time? License revoked. Third? Felony charges. IDC if it’s harsh!!!!! I’m sick of seeing the same ppl get arrested on DUI’s and they’re out driving drunk again the next day. My kids are on these roads.Dont drink & drive this is ridiculous 😂
00:00 - Replying to @raisintinybabesI have just never given my guy the opportunity to do the whole “idk how to take care of them” thing lmfao. Figure it out like I had to buddy! Y’all will survive 20 mins w/o me. Now I always made sure baby was freshly nursed- bcs I didn’t pump any. But other than that?
- Replying to @NatloveschoosI feel like women get so upset by these threads bcs it’s the first indicator for them that the way their partner treats them isn’t right or justifiable. I just hope I am in some way planting a seed that they deserve for their men to be active parents.
- Replying to @raisintinybabesDad can handle it. He may muddle through and struggle for a minute.. but isn’t that something all new parents go through? Hand him that baby and go shower. They’ll be fine.
- I keep seeing that TikTok of the little girl crying over being the only one in her class not invited to someone’s birthday party.. and while I do have sympathy for her- I also can’t help but wonder if there’s been any self reflection on the moms part.
- Replying to @raisintinybabesY’all I am not talking abt PPD omg please don’t fucking start lmfao
- Replying to @raisintinybabesLike in the grand scheme of things… this chair is NOT a major issue. Whether it stays or goes. It doesn’t matter. There will be millions of other issues when you two become parents and if you can’t handle something as miniscule as nursery decor-you’re gonna have a real hard time
- I just want to hug her. Postpartum rage is terrifying.. DAD needs to step up and lighten her load. She needs professional intervention asap.People oftentimes say that females are the nurturers. This doesn’t look very nurturing to me. 😢
00:00Readers added contextThe teenage girl in this video is experiencing Postpartum Psychosis, a mental health condition which impacts 1 in every 1,000 new mothers. In severe cases, mothers with PPP may attempt to harm themselves or their baby. It is considered a medical emergency. webmd.com/parenting/baby… nhs.uk/mental-health/…. ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/books/NBK54430… healthline.com/health/parenti… - Omg I’m so tired of the sahm money conversation. So many of yall are being financially abused and you think it’s normal. You shouldn’t *have* to ask your husband for money. He shouldn’t be cutting you a percentage from his check. You are not his employee- you’re his partner.
- Replying to @raisintinybabesI’m not a huge decor person so… I’d give & the chair would stay bcs I wouldn’t even care/notice that it doesn’t match the vibe. But clearly she has put a lot of thought and effort into babies room so???? Find a new spot for the chair?
