Wavy🍊 (@omfgWAVY) / X

Wavy🍊

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Wavy🍊

@omfgWAVY

Be patient with you• Black Mental Health• Emotional Healing• Community• Higher Purpose• Keep your focus on what you’re doing, not on who’s watching you do it.

SURAH AL FALAQ (he/him)

Joined April 2015

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Wavy🍊
@omfgWAVY
Aug 10, 2021
if you have finally entered the stage in adulthood where you require intentional and fulfilling relationships stand on that. be unwavering in your pursuit of that. raise the cost to access your energy, because it was probably too low to begin with.
Wavy🍊
@omfgWAVY
Sep 13, 2022
“i’m pro therapy, but sometimes you really just need some money.” — heavy on this. people need resources and relief, so they can take their rest without worrying about their basic needs being met.
Wavy🍊
@omfgWAVY
Oct 1, 2022
reciprocity doesn’t mean: “show up for me the exact same way i have shown up for you.” it means show up and do what’s within your capacity to do. it means do what spirit calls you to do. if that means showing up in big or small ways, just do it from a genuine place.
Wavy🍊
@omfgWAVY
Jun 4, 2022
romantic connections are constant work. i talked to a married couple over dinner recently. i asked the husband how many different versions of her did he experience. he said, “many versions, even some i didn’t recognize, but i loved them all.”
Wavy🍊
@omfgWAVY
Oct 16, 2022
“acts of service” without having to ask someone is so beautiful when found. sometimes you get tired of communicating all of your needs. when people pay attention, and can fulfill a need without you asking, that is something really special.
Wavy🍊
@omfgWAVY
Aug 20, 2022
when someone is ready to experience you, the connection just flows and progresses. the alignment will be understood and the attraction will be undeniable. we make things harder than they have to be by pursuing people who aren’t ready to experience us.
Wavy🍊
@omfgWAVY
Sep 4, 2021
people manifest you then don’t know what the fck to do with you.
Wavy🍊
@omfgWAVY
Jul 12, 2022
i was deprived of so much softness and affection growing up. it’s what my soul craves the most now. i had to peel back so many layers of toughness to get here.
Wavy🍊
@omfgWAVY
Jul 8, 2022
romanticize your life. spoil yourself. this is the best advice i can give to someone with a big heart. take every opportunity you can to create sweet moments for yourself.
Wavy🍊
@omfgWAVY
May 7, 2022
a lot of people don’t want a real partnership. having a real partner means they have to make real adjustments. they want a convenience partner. which basically comes down to someone who can accommodate their needs when they want. no wonder your soul is starving, you’re not open.
Wavy🍊
@omfgWAVY
Apr 14, 2022
celibacy gon help you get your mind right and find clarity. believe me.
Wavy🍊
@omfgWAVY
Mar 19, 2023
respectfully, i don’t want to negotiate. when it comes to the standard of care, consideration, and respect that i deserve. it’s either given or it’s withheld. it’s either present or it’s absent. i won’t be negotiating in my interpersonal relationships for what i deserve.
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Wavy🍊
@omfgWAVY
Dec 8, 2022
when someone tells you, they don’t have the capacity to show up for you, don’t get upset. they just gave you the gift of clarity through their honesty. now you can adjust your boundaries accordingly with no hard feelings. that’s true freedom.
Wavy🍊
@omfgWAVY
Jan 26, 2020
everybody isn’t replaceable. don’t let this clout chasing and emotionally unavailable generation convince you that mistreating a good person will still pay off in the end. watch how you handle people. some energies don’t come back around again.