coworker asked me my pronouns and i said "they/them but I'm at work right now so it's whatever" and then she came up to me later and said "this is you" and showed me this meme
okay but fun fact the reason i was finally referred to a doctor for endometriosis (after going to a million obgyns over the course of a decade) is that i had a physical therapist who felt around my stomach and was like "there's a whole lot of scar tissue here that's not normal"