I agree with this. I think if someone told me that, I would feel sexualized. I'm not an object that can be mentioned in that tone. It's not hot; it's horrible.
I want to make them feel loved in lots of ways. IMO, to maintain a healthy relationship, we need to show effort. Showing them lots of effort is a way to prove that we're loving them. Love isn't just telling them, "I love you." We need to make them feel the love that we gave them.
I'm the type of person who wants everything clear, which means I always want proper closure. But I will understand that people might have different perspectives. So, I still understand that if people don't give a closure, it is also a closure.
I never get bored of describing an INFP since I have a lot of INFP friends in my life. They're really softhearted people; you need to treat them so gently because they're fragile and emotional. They're creative, cheerful, and fun. Most of them are really cute to me.
INTJ is the most logical, critical, and rational person, i guess. as far as i know, they enjoy having 'arguments' with others. I mean, they're into discussing anything; sometimes they look intimidating and don't really have lots of energy to socialise.
imo, bukunya keigo higashino emang slow pace dan bikin cepet bosen di awal. aku kalau baca tuh sehari maksimal 70 halaman, tapi kalau udah sampe tengah ke akhir, bisa cepet beres (serunya emg di akhir). jadi mungkin kalau bosen, diseling dulu sama buku lain.