feels like this perfectly describes my typing skills - never had formal lessons so it's just piles of muscle memory for common patterns scotch taped together
one time my advisor, who wasn't even tenured, remarked "These conferences are asking me for my talk's title two weeks in advance. It just doesn't work that way. I make my slides on the plane ride there."
as funny as this is, it's still kind of messed up that the implication is that trans and intersex women can't ever be too good at their sport. They have to lose a minimum amount of times to "prove" their womanhood, a standard not inflicted upon other genders.
It shouldn't be removed but needs to be taught better. Lit was the only subject I failed in school bc I was both neurodivergent and ESL in a class that assumed native speaker fluency, and got slapped with "needs to read with (my) heart and not (my) head" on the midterm report
And a "tomboy" only in the sense of being sporty. Still got to keep long hair, use perfume, and wear dresses at formal events. Tomboy but can't be masculine, but also can't be too traditionally feminine either ๐คทโโ๏ธ
being assumed by a queer person to be a woman because I have boobs: ๐ซ๐
(in case something flips the gun emoji, it's supposed to point away from me)