are you doing something that many other people do, but it seems like suddenly when you do it’s problematic? congratulations, you may have a Hasta nak placement in your big three!
Was her approach wrong? Absolutely. And I’m glad that she apologized to Chelley. Seeing how she behaved with Charlie and Zak— by notifying her friends about certain things developing. i believe she acted this way because she values open communication on such matters
I use to be friends with a girl where every time I’d set boundaries, she’d gaslight me and even try to deflect by bringing up something from many months ago. She built secret animosity against me for so long. Ended up being the most traumatizing female friendship I have ever had
Don’t share your standards for what a man should be like on social media. That’s why I don’t find that stalking and studying you thing cute. That is a monitoring spirit