FIVE THINGS to ask someone before dirty talk:
1. Three names you like to be called
2. Three names you DON'T like to be called
3. Three words for your genitals
4. Three physical compliments you enjoy
5. Three non-physical compliments you enjoy
BDSM *can* be healing.
That doesn't mean it needs to be healing to be valid.
You do not need to justify your kink as "healing" or therapeutic for it to matter.
While BDSM can be therapeutic, but is it never, ever a replacement for therapy.
I truly do not think that most people understand that for a professional. 90% of worship is only enjoyable for the person doing the worship. Don’t get it twisted. Ask yourself “who is this REALLY for”
What do you think Rosie the maid did to deserve this?
Also, what do you think @AdahVonn did to George Jetsons body?
Tune in this week to @DomConLA to find out!
Only placing emphasis on BDSM as healing is harmful to SW.
It can create unfair pressure and/or expectations or dilute kink to be seen as palatable only when it's viewed as a form of therapy.
I’m moving apartments after 7 years in one spot & starting to go through storage.
I have a ridiculous amount of sex and kink odds & ends. Therefor I will become SEX TOY SANTA.
If you need any kink costuming, harnesses, and a few toys sprinkled throughout I am making donations