" 30 is so old". You've only been here for three decades. In two of them, you couldn't drink, rent a car, or even be fully responsible for yourself. Please wake up. You are a FRESH flower in the garden of life.
PLEASE READ SLOWLY:
If someone is falling behind in life, you don't have to remind them. Believe me, they already know. If someone is unhealthy, they know. If someone is struggling in their relationships, with money, with self-image, they know.
READ IT AND LET IT SINK IN
Every relationship will get " boring" after you've been together for years. Love isn't a feeling it's a commitment to love every day, physically and emotionally. It's difficult, it's not always laughs, smiles, and fun.
LISTEN...
The saddest end to a relationship is one where you have to break up with somebody when you're still in love with them. It sounds blizzard but it happens, because the truth is, as powerful and as thrilling and as wonderful as it may be, love isn't always enough
Nobody tells you how hard it is to rewire your brain so you can allow amazing things to happen to you after so much trauma or hurt. Blessings exist, good people exist, and a safer life exists. Let it happen.
ALL WOMEN NEED TO READ THIS
When a man is truly interested in you, there will be no need for you to do the pursuing. Men are born to pursue women. Yes, you can pursue a man if you want to, but in most cases that's just an obvious sign that he's not into you.
I love seeing couples who are actual best friends w/ each other. Not a relationship based solely on duty & societal expectations but one based on mutual understanding, laughter, shared experiences, shared interests & more. I genuinely think these are the happiest relationships.