when a man likes you he talks to you everyday and apperently when you start to like him back he is very busy and can’t talk at all. That’s how it works.
When Lauryn Hill said “it could all be so simple”she wasn't lying. Reciprocity between two people who want something to work is so simple. It's as easy as breathing.
Never dating someone with an avoidant attachment style ever again.
They'll destroy you to the point of questioning if everything in the relationship was even real in the first place?
My grandma told me,
“Marry someone you can suffer with.”
I used to think that was sad.
Now I understand—
Love isn't who takes you to dinner.
It's who holds you when you're drowning.
And builds you a boat.
Men are so obsessed with being used. if a woman expects you to take her on a date and pay for it, she’s not a gold digger. Gold diggers go after mansions and yachts, not a piece of damn chicken, be fr.
Tom Hardy once said,
"At your very best, you still won't be good enough for the wrong person, but at you absolute worst, you'll still be worth it to the right person."
Read that twice.
a lesson i learned this year is that a person's capacity for growth is directly linked to how much truth they can face about themselves without running away
She used to read books. Paint. Dance. Now she scrolls in the dark with a migraine and a racing heart, trying to quiet her nervous system enough to sleep so she can wake up and do it all again.