your body is yours so change it, fuck it up, get on hormones, get whatever piercings, get off hormones, draw on it, wear any kind of clothes, and defy any notion that it belongs to anyone else
if you say “i love you” to a sleeping girl as it shuffles in the night it will say it loves you too and not even remember it but you can tell it’s dreams just got a little bit sweeter
so so much kink stuff is basically "yes! yes! my helpless ego is getting what it deserves! look at that helpless squirming thing! im free for a moment!" when you cook it down