I study too much. I don't debate menfolk for free. People say I'm intense but that's not my problem. Insane enough to rebrand misanthrophy as new age philosophy
I am absolutely trying to fight off a catatonic state at the fact that 58tb of that exists... and one man had access to accumulating it..... like he does not need to see the light of day anymore
I saw a TT about this. This is where you see the years of that emotional labor women put in the marriage constantly dismissed by the husband so much to the point that she gets tired of compromising herself and leaves. THEN they snap out of it. Men only check in when you check out
I think this is a perfect example of why drowning yourself in a hobby that simply fulfills you can lead to you finding the love of your life cause he just may be into the same damn thing. This is so beautiful ๐๐
This clip made me feel a little sick. I've been listening to a lot of elder black women lately.. these men romanticize what these marriages have survived but if you were to honestly ask these women if they could have chosen a different life almost all would say "in a heartbeat"
A victim of abuse that won't address it can feel vindication when they can get to join in ridiculing another victim. Othering the victim separates them from that familiar place, now they get to be witness and define what happens. It's more important to have power than empathy
Not even the worst part. This is why it's important for women to tell their story, he convinced her to move, got her pregnant, had a ROUGH delivery then left her high and dry for his ex while recovering from c section and caring for her newborn. He's truly repugnant
I'm sorry but it was no question why the new Gossip Girl could not measure up they didn't have a single character that was this effortlessly a glorious trainwreck ๐ญ๐ญ๐ญ๐ญ
This is making me more annoyed by the min lol She really, actually shrank her very real international shine to mother and wife for a guy who is the equivalent of only being able to peak in college. Why do women think this little of ourselves to actually make this a NORM??
I was really hurt for her. I'm an introvert and I admit I love having my time but..I can recognize a lot of what makes me want to hermit is a trauma response these days due to a life of craving *intentional* Sisterhood and just never got it returned. She really deserves better