happy that you are choosing to do whatever you’d like with your life but proshipping is not an illness and therefore not something you are capable of recovering from
there is a big difference between a trauma response and a coping mechanism you are not recovering from anything you are simply realizing that proshipping and/or daydreaming is no longer necessary or useful to you or your recovery from certain traumas
disabled people and people with children are not a monolith but you should absolutely be able to see how and why this might be unreasonable or even impossible for some individuals and that they deserve to be advocated for as well
i dont think any of them have ever had a real friendship before because it is very ok and normal for friends to disagree on certain things and to omit those opinions to avoid conflict and discourse
have none of you ever experienced a real friendship before yes your opinions on some things will differ and it is ok and normal to omit that information to avoid conflict