Couples in healthy relationships also argue, have different opinions, feel frustrated, insecure and bored at times. Healthy doesn't mean perfect. What makes a relationship perfect is HOW you choose to move through those challenges TOGETHER.
We don't talk nearly enough about "papercuts" in a relationship. Everytime there's raised voices, cruel words, lack of support, short temper, lack of affection, etc., a tiny wound is created. Not enough to make you leave, but enough to make part of you pull away & lose a
date someone who is interested in you. i don't mean someone who thinks you're cute or funny. i mean someone who wants to know every insignificant detail about you. theres a difference between attraction and interest. find the person who wants to learn every aspect of who you are.