posting this again because it's getting closer to surgery! I'm starting to obtain letters of support and schedule exams and social work prep visits. any amount or just sharing helps loads to make sure I can afford recovery <3
the last thing I'm gonna say about this
trans women are routinely pushed out of queer/trans spaces because of cissexual queers, either directly or via being made to feel uncomfortable through their behavior towards us. it has happened to me and to every trans woman I know
one of the worst parts of this is people insisting that they constant use of they/them on people who are extremely obvious trans women it's not targeted and is universal. these people are lying, they do not they/them cis people
imagine getting mad at a trans woman for saying she is transitioning to look like a woman and be perceived as one. do yall think wanting to pass is problematic? do you think getting ffs is misogynistic? is taking estrogen bad because we're essentializing womanhood?