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@handarugemes
"When someone writes about you, either you are just a normal ones, or an outstanding ones." | ui ux designer | insurance-noob | growth mindset. i play games
Indonesia
Joined February 2010
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    Some of us do questioned choices/sacrifices we did, dreams we gave up, society beliefs we followed. Yet we need to keep going because that's what all we know. . . Semoga kita semua sehat selalu ya, dan dipertemukan dengan orang2 yg selalu support kita đŸŒ»đŸŒ»
    Replying to @bennysiauw89
    It's so hard to remind people not to lose themselves and give up their dreams here, as it will go against their deeply internalized beliefs. All I can do is just respect their decision and let them have that sense of worthy sacrifice
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    abis baca komen2 di postingan ig presiden, pada bilang nyesel milih WKWKWKWKWKW
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    Mau gue ceritain ga pengalaman gue jadi caregiver nyokap? Wkwk nanti gue bagi tips trik realita and what I should have done better, or what if the situation is better/much able to control? . . Including asuransi kesehatan swasta, dan understanding yourself as an individual.
    Yang marah2 disini itu keliatan belum pernah jadi caregiver untuk orangtua. Bener kata si TS, urusan uang itu paling mudah, tapi urusan siapa yang mau antar ke RS, nyebokin, masakin, ganti baju/perbannya, belum kalau rewel...
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    This is true. Thats why I believe such individuals with one of these background: 1. Disayang Tuhan 2. Lahir dari privilese 3. Bebannya hanya diri sendiri
    More often than not, when you see someone doing great things and check their past, you’ll find they were destined for greatness all along. People don’t show up accidentally.
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    Dear my foreigner friends, jangan mau korbankan citizenshipmu untuk tinggal di Indo. Extend your KITAS aja. . . I know you guys love Indonesia so much but keep it to no more than vacations or be an expat.
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    Jadi kepikiran, kita bakal terdengar pintar ketika kita bisa bring up conversation in technical/specific specialized terms. . . But you know what? Kita bakal terdengar super humble kalo kita bring up conversation in noob terms :) less intimidating might lead to more networking
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    "Kalo disini yg biasa 800rb, u/ model start from 1,2 juta kak. Belum makanan dan tip." . . Kata resepsionis di telpon saat gue tny soal LC di family karaoke di kelapa gading. Gue di 'encourage' milih satu sm org kantor. Tai anjing . . Kalo liat foto ini miris bgt terus terang 😞
    Replying to @jessicajeonggg
    Gua paksa cerita dia akhirnya cerita semua, dia mendem sampai stress sendiri karena dia merasa bersalah banget sama gua. Dan lo tau part paling anjingnya apa? si bos MAKSA LAKI GUA BAWA TU CEWEK KE KAMAR!! laki gua gabisa nolak karena gaenak cok.
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    Kalo mau cari pacar, emang harus yang emotionally available sih. Yang mau denger lo keluh kesah, yang bisa switch busy mode ke listen mode (karena gue kaya gini) . . I know that we cannot expect anything from a person, but at least that is what I was expecting (as a partner)
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    Replying to @DeludedOGS
    HR yang bener biasanya menawari sih, 'Are you comfortable having this session using English or Bahasa?' Penilaian kemampuan bahasa nya itu beda lagi.
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    Gue pernah berantem soal finansial sama bokap gara2 menurut gue decision making dia soal nyekolahin ade2 gue di pesantren di Semarang ngga menghasilkan banyak ambisi buat ade-ade gue. . . Gatau sampe cekcok apa, beliau merespon, "Bapak tuh gamau ngerepotin kamu, le!"
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    Buat temen2 yang mau survive sebagai sandwich generation (or breadwinner), berikut adalah beberapa hal yg temen2 musti genggam: 1. Literasi finansial 2. Career growth 3. Personal growth
    Capek (banget) jadi sandwich generation tuh. Jujur, ada banget masa masanya ngga sudi hasil kerja keras mesti di pos-pos-in ke sana ke mari yang ujungnya bukan buat dinikmatin sendiri. Tapi, after a while, pelan-pelan sambil merefleksi diri, jadi lebih sadar, kalau siapa tau, di
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    Replying to @farhanderis
    Ini kursi sempet saya hina2 karena bentuknya aneh. Pas di coba... . . Emang ya gaboleh mencaci maki sebelum merasakan sendiri 😭😭😭😭
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    Replying to @bincangurban
    Wow ._. wkwk aku sudah tidak sebanyak itu energinya buat ngelakuin banyak hal tanpa nafas wkwk
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    Replying to @handarugemes
    Gue sama tim gue udha rancang bonding moment di hotel oke, makan bbq enak, mereka dapet hotel nyaman. Bisa ajak keluarga . . Eh idenya ditolak krn overbudget. Then, tmn gue ada yg nyeletuk KARAOKE dan pak bos gue nimpalin, "Boleh tuh, sekalian tambahin cewek." . . Anjing emang