i am BEYOND angry.
i just got off my call with my gynaecologist. he asked how my cycles have been and i said i hadnโt gotten my period since august.
it is common for me to go a few months without periods, the longest i have gone is 9 months! i have PCOS so my cycle is not 1/12
guqqie alt ๐
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- Replying to @guqaltnormal. and that is in my file. this gynaecologist (who is the third one iโve spoken to in the last year) goes on to explain to me WHAT A PERIOD IS as if i didnโt learn when i was 11 in school. he then tells me my only options are the coil or go on the pill. i have been 2/12
- Replying to @guqaltanother shit experience with womenโs health. it is so clear to me that itโs just not given a fuck about. if my only two options are a pill that increases cancer risk or a device shoved up inside me that many people i know have had bad experiences with then what the fuck. 9/12
- Replying to @guqalttold by other gynaecologists, gps, family and friends that i should not go on the pill. my family has high risk of breast cancer. my mother had lumps removed and basically every woman on her side of the family has had experience with it. i say this to him, and he tells me; 3/12
- Replying to @guqaltโjust because it happened to your family doesnโt mean itโll happen to you.โ i almost hung up the phone. i was ADVISED by other doctors not to. he then brings up the coil again. my mother, aunt, sister and my motherโs close friend have all had experience with the coil and 4/12
- Replying to @guqaltnot good ones. my mother just finished surgeries to repair the damage it had done. i tell him this, and he proceeds to say; โwell those are a one in a million chance! if it were me, iโd see the pros way out the cons.โ then you go ahead and shove it up your uterus- 5/12
- Replying to @guqaltdidnโt know he was a dietitian as well as a gynaecologist thatโs CRAZY. he said thatโs all the advice he can give me and we can have a call in the next 6-8 months to check in. i will be seeing if i can get a second opinion. the point of this post is just sharing my yet 8/12
- Replying to @guqaltOH WAIT! YOU DONT HAVE ONE MATE! i asked if there were any other options as i wanted to not go for those. he upped my metformin which i expected. he also asked if iโve gained weight recently. i say no. he proceeded to ask my weight and height. i give it to him. he tells me 6/12
- Replying to @guqaltand my blood tests, while my previous gynaecologists had no clue what was going on inside me. anyways have an amazing day. treat yourself with kindness and love. and fuck how womenโs health is treated. #PCOS #Womenshealth 12/12
- Replying to @guqaltif anyone has read this far thank you for listening to my rant. if anyone has any advice for me for PCOS related things, especially bringing on a period that would be great. it seems the advice from google and tiktok has already worked better than anything 10/12
- Replying to @guqaltthat iโm not overweight and at my heights recommended weight, but that i should lose 5-6 KG because itโll help no matter what. he then proceeds to tell me to not eat any fruit or vegetables. he says โfruit are just full of vitamins and sugar, you donโt need them!โ 7/12
- and they werenโt just roommates
- i am so incredibly proud of my friends for speaking out about the abuse they have had to experience. it takes a lot of courage to come out about those type of experiences to your friends, let alone the whole internet. i hope this helps other victims who are currently internally//





