I learn little random facts and historical bites every day that I think y’all would find interesting. So I’ll start a thread of all of them and pin them on my profile. Here goes randomness. 👇🏾👇🏾
My son has dreadlocks. One of their exam questions was in True/False format and it read “Keeping your hair long is untidy..” and he answered “FALSE” and the teacher gave him a wrong. I am going for that mark on Wednesday.
Even in casual sex, you need to be with a partner who is kind to you. Cares about you and treats you gently. Someone you can actually talk to and hang out with. Just because it’s casual doesn’t mean it should be with someone emotionally unavailable or cruel.
As a woman, you also need money to date someone. Fluidity makes the relationship fun and balanced. You need to have fuel money, Uber money, treat him once in a while, buy him thoughtful gifts and be able to reciprocate what he does for you even if you don’t really need to.
Telling a 6-year-old Black African boy that his long African hair is untidy is NASTY work. Furthering the colonialist’s agenda in 2025 should be illegal. 😅 What?!
It’s okay for people to be given everything by their parents - cars, houses, a job, a business - there’s no glory in suffering to get ahead, If you can inherit it, take it with pride!
In one of my favorite books ‘Under the Udala Trees’ Chinelo says “I suppose it’s the way we are,humans that we are. Always finding it easier to make ourselves the victim in someone else’s tragedy. Though it is true, sometimes it's hard to know to whom the tragedy really belongs.”
I found my roommate hanging in her room. People that commit suicide dont think about the person who’s going to find them.I nearly failed the year AND had to see 3 therapists in one month before exams. I had to break the news to her bfs and friends who ended up at mental hospitals
Insulting women who get abortions and still insulting single mothers is why that girl said men can do everything through Satan who gives them strength.😂😂 As in…
Marry the nice guy. The consistently kind man who shows genuine care and is intentional in his actions. The one who doesn't make you guess or beg. All other things (looks, money, bed-breaking sex etc) can be learned, earned and fixed but a good heart is hard to find and/or fake.