i do not want queer culture to be normalized. i want it to be destigmatized. i don’t want straight people to participate in it and muddy our definitions and terms. i just want them to stop killing us when we use them
remember when i said that straight people adopting top/bottom phrasing would never be liberating until they understood that it’s not the same as being dominant and submissive?
nah, she said she feels hesitant to say it because in her native language the only word for lesbian is treated as a slur. very common phenomenon actually.