Fovwe.
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Fovwe.
@fovwee
Valar Morghulis.
- Oh and I have a husband, even though he recently passed away it changes nothing. I am married🙂
- Replying to @fovweePlease do not give us a name we can’t answer, don’t leave for us an identity we will struggle to embrace. You will be missed, your absence will be felt, we will never recover. Whatever you do, please don’t die young.
- Guys I’m attempting to respond to people on my birthday post but I’m too terrified to even start. I’m really 35, born in 89 and my last child just turned 11 a few days ago. I’ve just started to accept that I look younger than my age. I’m so thankful for the love
- Replying to @fovweePhew! Today being the international day of the widow I’ve finally said it publicly.🙈😫
- Replying to @fovweeI have a husband in heaven, But here on earth I’m not sure what I am anymore. I’ve struggle deeply with how to identify myself. It also doesn’t help that people tell me I don’t look like a widow so maybe I really shouldn’t identify as one.
- Replying to @fovweeDear Good Men, Today is the international day of the widow and I beseech you on behalf of the women who love you, the ones who are still blessed to call you husband.
- Even in this generation, a Nigerian woman never escapes the accusation of having a hand in the passing of her husband. Any attempt to be seen or heard is interpreted as a signal for attention.
- Replying to @fovweeSo here goes nothing My name is Fovwe, And I am a widow.🙈
- Replying to @fovweeI know they mean well but it makes things so much harder for me. I do try to cope with very dark humour most times, but in reality, I feel a hefty sense of personal displacement. Who am I? What am I? What have I become? My favorite question so far is Kini mo wa de bi?
- Replying to @fovweeI’ll never forget breaking down in ugly tears at the bank because I didn’t know how to answer what my marital status was. The utter confusion of what box to tick sent me spiralling. I walked out of there form incomplete and I haven’t gone back since.
- Please if you are able, head to Patrick Stephen Purple Heart Foundation and donate to their cause. They do amazing things for widows in need. Love, Light & Suya.
