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I’m sharing my detransition story—raw and honest.
🎙️ Listen to the raw chapters here: open.spotify.com/show/5SBwMElrN…
📖 Book coming soon
If this helps even one person, it’s worth it.
Mary 🦎
2,665 posts
Mary 🦎
@fandaflames
Detrans Woman. I’m also a animal lover and an avid curler. My hopes of this account is to prevent one lost soul of going down the trans path. Terfy.
Minnesota
Joined May 2011
- I miss my breasts. I don’t know why I started hating them. I wish someone would have told me to be patient and I’d outgrow this gender nonsense. Affirming care isn’t the answer when treating people struggling with gender dysphoria. It’s only a bandaid.
- There’s a woman at my work who identifies as non-binary. The only thing that stands out as her being non-binary is the fact that she has green hair. I slipped and called them her. She corrected me and I said I’m sorry and we went on with our day. I thought that was it but she
- I’ve had 5 young girls contract me today and say they no longer feel safe being trans identified and are going back to dressing and identifying as a woman again. I’m hoping once they are out of the cult they will realize their mistake. Good news!
- When I chose to have my breasts removed I was suicidal. That was said to be from gender dysphoria. I got my breasts removed and I didn’t feel any euphoria instead I felt empty like something was missing. The doctors should have never went ahead with the surgery.
- Finally took all my testosterone and needles to the pharmacy to be destroyed. I don’t know why I kept them for so long. I still don’t know why I transitioned. The trans community would say I have internalized transphobia but I don’t think so. I think it was social contagion.
- So my secret confession is that I stayed in the trans identified support group and when someone posts about being hesitant to go on testosterone or get a surgery I hop in as a friend and give them support and allow them to think of the consequences. Today a young girl posted how
- Don’t get me wrong I fully accept my mistake of transitioning. I just think my life would be better if I never heard of trans ideology. I don’t really believe in trans anymore. I don’t think anyone is born in the wrong body or wrong brain. It’s just mental illness.
- Testosterone made the skin off my urethra thin so I pee myself on a semi regular basis. I went to many doctors and tried many things before I got this diagnosis that I believe to be true. Testosterone is pure poison for women.
- Detransistioning was one of the hardest choices I’ve ever made. I was firmly entrenched in the trans cult. I had an active social life. When I began to question trans philosophies I knew that if I disagreed I’d be kicked out. And I was. I can stand on my own two feet though.
- For me, believing in gender identity made my dysphoria a lot worse in ways I didn’t realize until I moved on from gender theology completely. Regardless of how you feel about your body, buying into the idea that you were born incorrectly and that the only way you can have a
- Met a young woman today with green hair. She complimented me on my voice and wishes she could be on testosterone. I told her about all the health complications I had and she her face ended up matching her hair. I don’t know what she’ll end up doing but I put the fear in her
- Detrans woman. Was on HRT for 4 years. Been off of hormones for about a year and I’m ready to talk.
- I waited a year to talk about my trans experiences because I saw some of the hate other detransistioners got. I wanted to make sure I was strong enough to endure it. I have got hate but the love and support I have received has bowled me over. Thank You.
