Pinned
To whoever needs to hear it; It’s okay to admit that you don’t want children and that having them would take too much of a toll on your mental and physical well-being. Prioritizing yourself in your own life is okay.
Harpy✨🇵🇸
45.9K posts
Harpy✨🇵🇸
@eldritchharpy
Rach, 34 | she/they 🏳️🌈 | I read books & play video games | 📚 39/68 | cr: Lights Out | Every Last Lie
- CHILDREN ARE NOT EMOTIONAL REHAB CENTERS FOR DEPRESSED ADULTS HOLY SHIT JUST GO TO THERAPYReplying to @eldritchharpyChildren can be a cure for depression just by them being in your life, raising them, watching them grow into wonderful people can make you happier than any object you can possibly buy
- do the people that tell me I'll regret not having kids really think that'll change my mind? Buddy, I would much rather regret NOT having kids, than have them and regret them. Kids deserve parents who actively and happily choose to fill that role
- you look like a thumb
Replying to @eldritchharpyYou're not pretty enough to make any man angry. - Men are so quick to be like "oh yeah? And who gave you those rights??" Bitch, who the fuck do you think took them in the first place. We don't have rights because y'all gave them to us, we have rights because we took them the fuck back.
- I love it when I make a post calling out misogyny and the men immediately do a misogyny
- I do not owe society children. Y’all act like I don’t fucking pay taxes like everyone else. Like what even is this takeReplying to @eldritchharpyThat's a very selfish choice. If you're making it, please don't plan on using social services like social security, public healthcare marketplaces, city water or sewer, etc built only to work with a stable or growing population.
- You wouldn’t say this shit to a boy or a man and that’s the fucking point. It’s not my job to teach people to respect meYou can have a voice without acting like a bitсh. Rude =/= assertive Being rude just reduces sympathy and people's willingness to listen. Which would be beneficial to your victim complex and the only conceivable reason you'd encourage people to be rude in the first place.
- How is knowing that I can’t physically, mentally, or financially provide for a child in the ways that they would need or deserve in any way selfish or immature?
- People will spit at me never to have children because I’m “woke” while simultaneously vilifying me for being sterilized because I’m not fulfilling my “duty” as a woman. It’s not about babies, y’all just hate that women have agency
- I don’t want kids, why does that make people mad? I’m 31, bout to elope, own a home, have a plethora of pets, & a steadily advancing career. In my free time (which I have a lot of) I get to play video games, work on my house, and enjoy life with my partner. Stay mad✌🏼😌
- Wow, so glad to know you were already a terf when you posted this
