divya venn (@divya

divya venn

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divya venn

@divya_venn

i write in hope some of you will execute my good ideas better than me

observing happiness

Joined February 2023

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divya venn
@divya_venn
Jan 23
this is a problem w happy people in general: - most people navigate life totally intuitively - on the surface it looks like everyone kinda does the same things (go to school apply for jobs date) but with VASTLY different results - our lives fracture along much more subtle lines
seraphina
@hearthkeeping
Jan 21
the problems with dating discourse: - happily married people (usually) don’t spend their time arguing online about dating, so they’re a tiny fraction of the content you see. - most happily married people got lucky and are naturally happy marriage material, so what they do
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divya venn
@divya_venn
Feb 21, 2025
"Your boos mean nothing, I've seen what makes you cheer" is actually an excellent and life-affirming attitude
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divya venn
@divya_venn
Mar 17, 2025
I always thought this should win an award for like, most accurate advertising
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divya venn
@divya_venn
Jul 2, 2025
Replying to @WestsideLAGuy
I also hate incompetence. I hate it in the only place I have any control over it: myself. It is deeply incompetent to outsource a task and then throw a tantrum when it isn’t done the way you would do it.
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divya venn
@divya_venn
Mar 1, 2025
being annoyed is the price you pay for community. it means having guests when you'd rather be alone. it means letting someone live with you even when they get on your nerves. it means showing up for events that you'd rather not go to. it means turning the other cheek.
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divya venn
@divya_venn
Jul 13, 2025
during the rape of nanking japanese soldiers came to Ginling Girls College, where refugees from all over the city were sheltering, and demanded 10 women to be handed over as "comfort women" (sex slaves) A group of prostitutes volunteered to be taken in order to spare the
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divya venn
@divya_venn
May 15, 2025
this is a god awful tinder profile. if you're in this situation send me screenshots of your profile + $100 by venmo + a voice recording of you talking about yourself for 2 minutes and I will tell you, with brutal honesty, exactly why you're putting women off
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divya venn
@divya_venn
Oct 6, 2025
The police department could do stings like this semi regularly for a very low budget, make some well publicized arrests, and effectively eliminate porch piracy
Shivers
@thinkingshivers
Oct 5, 2025
time to find out where stolen packages go
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divya venn
@divya_venn
Jul 2, 2025
Replying to @WestsideLAGuy
Anyone has the right to complaint but I still see it as a sign of deep immaturity
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divya venn
@divya_venn
Mar 9, 2025
i think procrastination leads to burnout much more than work does
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divya venn
@divya_venn
Apr 20, 2025
If I don’t give my mother constant little side quests she gets depressed and prone to drama. Chaos ensues. “Favors” I never asked for and actively dislike plague our relationship. Strange my father never arrived at this simple technique in 25 turbulent years of marriage
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divya venn
@divya_venn
Jun 30, 2025
rarely do I see someone with my exact sense of humor in the wild
00:00
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divya venn
@divya_venn
Sep 2, 2025
Replying to @hollowearthterf
With a different expression and some foundation she’d be 9/10 her bone structure and ratios are amazing
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divya venn
@divya_venn
Aug 14, 2025
No one talks about how being avoidant can benefit you in every relationship other than your romantic one because being easygoing and chill and non reactive and undemanding makes you fun and good to have around, and this is what avoidance (in its most well adjusted form) blesses
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