DUDE my husband (who’s not working) just made a joke about how I should “go back to the kitchen and make dinner” randomly. So I said back “go out, get a job, and provide” and SOMEHOW I’m the bad guy because I’m “messing with real life problems” ??? AM I WRONG TO OVER REACT ???
Aya
2,566 posts
154cm • gw: 33kg • 25 • poc 🇳🇬🇨🇳🇲🇽 • always high 🍃
Any pronouns • non-binary
Joined February 2020
- You guys are going to hate me, but my intake is around 1.6k and I’m still consistently losing. No binges since, no more feeling weak. Y’all hate it but higher cal intakes are the way to go 🤷🏽♀️
- I’m gonna be honest with you guys. My hw was 145kg (320 lbs) and my lw was 42kg (92lbs) all a year apart. I’m back up to 46kg, but GODAMN I DID THAT
- Mini rant/vent I’m thinking about getting a divorce or an annulment ? Husband hasn’t worked for the past two years and refuses to try and even look for a job. That would be fine if he did other things like chores and all that, but this man does NOTHING except throw fits 1/?
- Literally just water fasted for as long as I could. Then ate 800 and burned everything off ! People don’t understand how easy it is for 0bese people to lose weight with water fasting and being at a net 0
- Replying to @delicatexthinabout how he shouldn’t have to clean or do the laundry because that’s what I should be doing. He’s in his 30s and still acts like a child. I was pressured to get married and I feel like I fucked up my life so badly so quickly
- Replying to @delicatexthinHe will get mad when I don’t give him money to buy food or money to buy shit he doesn’t need and just wants it to have it. His parents are extremely rich so when I don’t give him money he goes straight to them. Part of me feels like it’s not his fault for being like this ?
- Replying to @delicatexthinBut most of me is SCREAMING “why do I have to take care of a man in his 30s” the answer that I’ve come up with ? Love. I love this man whole heartedly, but everyday of this is draining. I work and come home to him doing nothing, not even a hello when I walk through the door
- Replying to @delicatexthinI think the only reason I stood so long is the fear of being alone again. The fear of starting something new. I don’t want to go through another beginning of a new relationship. I just wanna be loved. I just wanna be appreciated. I just want to feel wanted. :(
- Replying to @delicatexthinI always try and talk to him about how I’m feeling and everything, but all he does is cry, say he’s sorry, and that he’ll change. I’ve lost count how many times I’ve cried to this man about feeling alone in this marriage. Yet he still does nothing
- Replying to @delicatexthinAnd if you’ve seen my most recent posts, yes it’s all chips and salsa :D
- Y’all please stop messaging me asking for tips on how to lose weight. We all know how I got here. I have an 3ating dis0rder
- To everyone who followed me off that post: this is my account where I post about my eating disorder and my mental health issues and struggles. Please unfollow me if you’re not on this side of twt. PLEASE UNFOLLOW ME !! I don’t have time to go through every follower right now :(
- That post was literally meant to reach like maybe 5 people dude what the fuck

