How you spend your days is how you spend your life. So if you want to spend the rest of your days being a slave of your circumstances instead of a creator of your reality then good luck charlie
One day you guys will accept Somalis are individuals with their own experiences about race and identity lol. So interesting how that Fresh n Fit podcast guy is Sudanese but no one lectures that community lol.
No disrespect to OP- but honestly I feel like a lot of Africans ( or even everyone) downplay or choose to ignore the violence that the gov of Ethiopia has done to Somalis. Cause it ruins the fantasy they have of Ethiopia
Sorry if this sounds snarky but honestly this is why I would wait before having a kid with a man even after marriage. Like 2-3 years for me. Idk a lot about Landon tbh and his success career wise but men love humiliating ambitious women.
I don't think I'm mature enough tbh. Kid always needs to come first and I would get annoyed to always have to include and think about it, but I would not date a man who didn't put his kid first lol cause that's not a good father.