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Amaka 🖤
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Amaka 🖤
@chiamakababe
Feminist| Interior architect & designer|Economist|3D designs
Lagos, Nigeria
Born October 11
Joined September 2019
Last November, my “best friend” was over at my place, I summoned the courage to open up to her about the SA experience I had few weeks before. She sympathized with me and all, I begged her to stay the night because I was extremely sad and vulnerable. she blatantly refused..- I remember my friend Naomi. We were all in primary 4. She was a new student, really beautiful and i used to tease her by calling her daddy’s girl because of how she always talked to me about her dad and how close they were. Her father picked her up from school..Do you ever randomly think about someone from your past and think, “I hope you’re well, wherever you are”?
- Replying to @chiamakababeBlocked her everywhere. She showed up at my place uninvited crying and apologizing. I wasn’t moved one bit. Her other friends were there and they scolded her. A week later I demanded for my spare key. When she returned it, I told her to never contact me again forever ✋.
- Replying to @chiamakababeAnd went over to her man’s place instead. (I didn’t think much of it tbh but I was hurt). Few days later, the news made it to the TL.. 99% of people piled on me, called me names, slutshamed me, called me a liar and some were sending death threats.. this went on for days and my..
- Trigger warning: SA/child abuse/ rape/ 🩸/ pedophilia I’ve been skeptical about sharing this story. Mid last year, June/July to be precise in my old house, I had this friend (a 12 year old girl), she was a househelp and a nanny to 3 kids. We used to engage in random small..
- Replying to @chiamakababe“Bestfriend” who literally lived 5 minutes away and had a spare key to my home, was no where around me. Someone even forwarded her snap to me because she went partying with her friends and man & asked me if she knew what was going on. The few girls who came to check on me with..
- Replying to @chiamakababefood and groceries were constantly asking about my “bestfriend” because I was very public and vocal about our friendship. I even lied to a lot of people we were twins because we almost looked exactly alike. Day 1, 2, 3, passed and this babe was not anywhere near my house…
- Replying to @chiamakababeHer mom said as Naomi passed out. Her mother was in a lot of tears and panic. Long story short, that was the last time I saw/heard from my friend Naomi. I randomly think of her. I can’t remember her surname but wherever you are, I hope you’re doing okay ❤️.
- Replying to @chiamakababeOnly for her to call me day 4 to take down all her pictures from my social media (I posted about her a lot) that she didn’t want to be in the mix plus her company told her to tell me to do so else she wasn’t going to be in their “marketing video” and to save her company’s…
- Replying to @chiamakababereputation (which I strongly believe was a lie because it didn’t make sense) I froze and I broke into tears. I don’t think all of the things that happened to me that day hurt as much as when my supposed best friend made that call and even worse was totally absent at the worst…
- Replying to @chiamakababepossible time of my life. Something I couldn’t even dream of doing to her bro. No we didn’t have any rift or disagreement, we were all good and I struggled to understand where her actions were stemming from. I wiped my tears and deleted everything. Days after, I confronted her &
