Fem Bottoms & Men (@bottomsandmen) / X

Fem Bottoms & Men

483 posts

Fem Bottoms & Men

@bottomsandmen

Boiwives, p*ssyboys, f@ggy bottoms, & queens of yesteryear and today, and the Men who love(d) them.

Joined April 2023

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Fem Bottoms & Men
@bottomsandmen
Nov 24, 2023
Girlies, let your man be protective of you. He wants to hold you because he wants you to feel safe and loved. And he wants you to know he’s got you. So what if others think it’s feminising. Personally, I love it when my husband wants to be protective of me.
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Fem Bottoms & Men
@bottomsandmen
Jan 7, 2024
Men, let your bottom be a queen with you; treat her like a lady. Let her find her comfort in your manliness.
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Fem Bottoms & Men
@bottomsandmen
Sep 7, 2024
Yes it’s a stereotype, but having different aptitudes and interests in a same-sex union can be very useful and also energises a relationship. The macho top has one skill / interest set, and the queeny bottom another. Each to their own, even if it is “stereotypical”.
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Fem Bottoms & Men
@bottomsandmen
Jul 27, 2024
Celebrating macho men with fem bottoms isn’t about glorifying a hierarchy of worthy vs worthless. It’s about cherishing a complementary union of equally important sexual and gendered differences. A man and his boiwife is a strong and effective coupling.
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Fem Bottoms & Men
@bottomsandmen
Sep 15, 2023
BFFs together with a "real man". Fem bottoms the world over have nearly always fantasised about being paired with a male that has all the masculinity they feel they lack themselves. It's a core fem bottom commitment and dream.
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Fem Bottoms & Men
@bottomsandmen
Nov 9, 2024
Some men have an irresistible urge to show their pits — hairy, masculine. An assertion of confidence and self-assurance in his masculine self. Something extremely attractive to fem bottoms.
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Fem Bottoms & Men
@bottomsandmen
Dec 31, 2023
In a masc4masc gay culture, masc-fem gay unions can often seem like a kink. Dismissed and belittled. But in 2024, let’s remind ourselves that masc top and fem bottom couples have often been the homosexual norm. 💪🍆 🧚🍑
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Fem Bottoms & Men
@bottomsandmen
Sep 16, 2023
Differences between masc tops and fem bottoms can be reflected in the kinds of gifts that make us happy. I love to receive flowers. My man loves a good home-cooked meal, and especially enjoys desserts. Learn what the other likes, and vive la difference!
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Fem Bottoms & Men
@bottomsandmen
Jul 6, 2023
Men: putting your bottom up on a table like this communicates to him that you're in charge and you mean business. The roles are not up for negotiation. A hand behind the bottom's neck also lets him know you're the man here. Let your bottom respond softly, submissively.
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Fem Bottoms & Men
@bottomsandmen
Oct 13, 2023
If these were a couple, many straight people would assume that the left is “the man” and the right is the “bottom”. Some would dismiss this as being heteronormative. But with men and fem bottoms, the differences usually are visible, and they are correct. The left is “the man”
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Fem Bottoms & Men
@bottomsandmen
Sep 8, 2024
Two males, but two very different gender expressions. A healthy society has room for both: the typically masculine man, and the effeminate male (who also make a hot couple). Not trying to turn one into the other, but allowing each to be themselves.
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Fem Bottoms & Men
@bottomsandmen
May 22, 2024
All of us benefit from healthy confidence. But this might look different between man and fem bottom. Each is self-aware, sure in what they bring to the world.
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Fem Bottoms & Men
@bottomsandmen
Sep 25, 2023
This is important. When we talk about a man's masculinity, we're not talking about him being an entitled b*stard, with no sense of duty and responsibility. A true man worthy of your respect and attention is one who takes onboard the full meaning of being a man.
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Fem Bottoms & Men
@bottomsandmen
Sep 22, 2024
Sexual equality isn’t the same as versatility or similarity. True sexual equality involves recognising that sexual partners can also have distinct but complementary sexual desires, roles, and gender expressions. Equality is about welcoming, not denying these distinctions.
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