met a young guy who just graduated with a cs degree & can't find a job at all & I asked if he did any side passion projects or leetcode or had a strong opinion on rust or python or javascript & it was a no to all & dude if you can't even fool me, maybe it's not this job market
today the tsa was scolding people for asking if they needed to take their shoes off as if the polish on my toes right now isn’t older than that rule change
a historical reason why families took the paternal name - besides "the patriarchy!" - is that men can more easily abandon a child and/or family compared to women, so they gave their name as a public vow to stick around and support them, as well as acknowledging fathership
one of the unexpected benefits of a committed relationship is the extent to which it's eliminated tedium from my life
things that used to be annoying chores (folding laundry, washing dishes) are now opportunities to make her life better, to take a load off her plate