STOP putting a vent channel in your discord and START putting an ibs/lactose intolerance channel where you tell everyone when you had the worst shit of your life due to your own hubris
to the people who have this mentality i wish you a very "the next ship you hyperfixiate one only has 5 shippers and two of them only write fic in mandarin"
yeah sorry i feminized your favorite male character. yeah i put him in a tight little dress and hes having a good time. i bought him some jewelry and he started giggling. yeah no dont worry. im fetishizing him.
you can be respected as an SA survivor as long as you're nice and aren't too emotional and don't talk about it too much and get over it and aren't horny ever again and don't engage with kink and don't be too weird and don't be too traumatized and don't create art about it
actually baldur's gate 3 implemented an incredible mechanic in gaming that every rpg forward should implement and its asking for a wittle kissy from ur romanced character whenever u want
i think "i dont want to put bigotry in my fantasy world or oc lore" and "i want to explore my own experiences with bigotry and/or how it would translate to this fictional setting that i can control" should be equally valid options for ppl to have
idk people have got to be more normal about seeing kinks and fetishes that they dont like online. what happened to seeing sone crazy inflation art of your fav character on google images and just sighing and scrolling past
personally, if i learned that a voice actor had henious bigoted views, my first instinct wouldnt be to tweet about how i always secretly disliked the fictional character he played and how im so enlightened that i actually always thought the character was ugly, but what do i know