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- Replying to @yslmammi+ normalize forgiving someone when they’ve changed their opinion on something upon learning new information! People DO change!
- Replying to @yslmammiIdk. Getting proposed to during my big life events like graduation or winning an event at the Olympics would actually make me so annoyed and say no. Don’t use MY moment to make it about you. Ew ew ew.
- Replying to @yslmammiYeah but BOTH people have to have emotional intelligence & the capacity to grow - otherwise you’re just in a cycle of abuse
- Replying to @yslmammiNo matter how strong your work ethic and skills are, you can only thrive in an environment that genuinely cares about your growth. Take note!
- Replying to @yslmammia group of genuine friends is the goal. being surrounded by friends who love you, support you, appreciate you, and motivate you to be better is the best feeling.
- Replying to @yslmammiParents saying that you owe them something because they fed you and put a roof over your head is emotional abuse. It implies you don’t inherently deserve basic needs. The responsibility of feeding and housing a person was their choice.
- Replying to @yslmammiRead that again. Slowly. Overextending yourself —saying yes when you're tired —giving when you're empty —showing up when you're broken …it doesn’t make them love you more. It makes them expect more. You think you’re being kind. But really? You’re teaching them how to ignore
- It got me into therapist 🫢
- Replying to @yslmammiWithholding information that would allow someone to make an informed decision is betrayal. Lying through omission is still lying.
