my lil brother (15) told me he’s depressed. i asked him what he needs and he said, “i need help, i need therapy” so i signed him up + his first appointment is 10/12. he said i make him feel safe + he wants me to come home so i’m flying home next weekend. i’m so proud of him.
today i asked my nephew (3) “what do you want uncle vic to get you for your birthday?” he thought for a bit then said, “a robot dinosaur” i replied, “ok, and if uncle vic can’t find that, what do you want?” he said, “find it” 😭😭😭😭
my therapist was telling me today that there’s no disappointment when u accept things/people for what they are. but u don’t always have to cut people off when they don’t meet your expectations sometimes u just have to adjust the relationship + accept their capacity.
y’all so lame + dumb. trans/trans masc niggas without top surgery exist, and if they can’t be shirtless at pride, where the fuck can they be shirtless??