Mnk... Hhhay'
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Equal parts Bundu and stardust✨
Joined September 2017
- There's also a chat about a heavy influx in straight women in a queer space attracting a lot of straight men to it which just makes the space unsafe for EVERYONE...
- People keep pointing out that if he’d had a kid with a 19 year old, her and her family would’ve had to do the lion’s share of the work of raising the kid but, that’s his point. He’s mad he has to actively participate in raising his kid!😭I had my first child at 31. Now I wish it was at 19-25
- My Uber driver’s girl called him needing cash and he said he could only do it after his shift bc he had to physically deposit it. I told him to give me the cash ndizomenzele on my phone.😭 Akhomntu ungazu bhejwa apha!
- My late cousin's daughter (4) keeps stealing glances at me and smiling. I suspect it's because I look like her mom to her (same complexion, face shape and short hair) and it's making me so, so sad. Gorgeous little girl though..
- I don’t internalise other people’s biases towards me. Like I’m aware that people find black, darkskin, chubby, opinionated etc. women undesirable but that’s squarely a them problem. I’m amazing.😭 Ndimhle everyday and I’m really cool.🤷🏾♀️Women with a high self-esteem, what helped create that? What helped maintain it?
- Also, why do you not wish that your mom hadn’t lived like that? Why don’t you wish your mom had had it a bit easier? Why?
- My least favourite ppl are ppl who come emcimbini and do nothing. The so called "lazy cousins". Don't come, rather. Uyaphi? If you're not here to help out or sing, Uyaphi? Bcos all ur presence does is create more work for those who do contribute. Stay home, be useless there.
- You know what this explains? Why men react so violently to rejection - they’re not hearing “I am not interested”, they’re hearing “you’re not him”. Its one more thing that’s squarely on them but, leads to US being harmed.There’s nothing off the table when you’re HIM. You can even state your dietary restrictions and she will comply. “Ake rate beetroot ya vinegar”, she will have chutney beetroot ready for you.
- Replying to @EdibleBloke and @vwhitlockmusicThis is such a stretch! 😭
- Replying to @micfeel__No. We are vulnerable and abused. Stop it.
- Replying to @MBP_life and @SupernovaMommaDidn't even try to understand the tweet. Just rushing to show disdain for women.
- This touches on something that’s enraged me for years: the fact that people who sexualise you will impose promiscuity on you for no reason other than the fact that THEY think you’re sexy or assume other people find you sexy. It’s not just sex crazed tourists or people like thoseWhen I said this men said I was lying. I did a story time about digital nomads in Cape Town approaching me with money and they were shocked when I said no…😭😭 I’m glad we’re waking this up!!!!!
- Replying to @NathanielSmithLHe said he can’t believe he let himself get duped into parenting.😭😩





