Everyone always says they want an assertive gf like this but you don't know how many times I've met a boys parents and his dad looks at his son like a sad dog when he realizes they bottom for me
Literally had one scene where my hands were literally bleeding after and I was getting dizzy and I was like "hey can I lay on your lap for a second" and they told me no because it didn't fit their image of me
Don't worry I broke up with this person after they told me basically the same thing when I asked for a hug on a hard day. Dommes aren't just kink dispensers
Thinking bout the time I took a boy out on a date and I told him I'd do the standard tomboy date trope of wearing a dress just for him and he was instantly like "NO WEAR WHAT YOU WORK OUT IN PLEASE"