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@Viznelson

Lagos, Nigeria

Joined October 2017

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@Viznelson
Mar 1
Vision board for 2026 is here *Not in any particular order oncrowdr.com/explore/c/i-ne… 1. Professional Growth in Tech. 2. Level Up Content Creation. 3. Work with international clients. 4. Earn my first million naira. 5. Workout more (I probably won't)😩. 6. Be debt free. 7.
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@Viznelson
May 16, 2025
In Nigeria you can be a pedophile A rapist A murderer A domestic abuser A kidnapper A terrorist You wanna know what you can't be???? A homosexual
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@Viznelson
Jun 16, 2025
I don't enjoy being alive I never have And when I tell people this, they assume I'm suicidal It doesn't mean I'm ungrateful, I'm proud of where I am and what I have accomplished Happiness is not a prerequisite for us to live You can do life sad, angry, depressed or anxious
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@Viznelson
May 22, 2025
June is coming Its nice to be nice
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@Viznelson
Sep 29, 2025
Homelessness is not something I’d wish on my worst enemy. Since moving to Lagos in 2023, I wasn't stable moving From place to place. Each place felt temporary like I could be asked to leave any moment. Some nights, I even slept at work. Now I finally have my own lirru place.
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@Viznelson
Mar 2, 2025
I genuinely believe in forgiveness and moving on But I was kitoed.... what am I saying sef, I was abducted, raped multiple times and left in my own faeces, and one day the perpetrators will be like "I'm repented" or "forgive me" Gurl.....no jokes, I'll get my lick back
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@Viznelson
May 5, 2025
It's exhausting having a feminine voice or what people would classify as a feminine Customer care service constantly refers to me as ma'am on the phone Like I'm not even mad at it, call me whatever pronoun. The one I don't like is when they'll say give your husband the phone
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@Viznelson
Oct 1, 2025
Finding joy
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@Viznelson
Aug 29, 2024
Your favourite potato
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@Viznelson
Jun 18, 2024
February 8 2024 The day I experienced KITO for the first time. I was so scared, being surrounded by a group of men, afraid of what they'll do to me. I was extorted, raped multiple times, beaten. My family was called, my mum was terrified for me, I was depressed.
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@Viznelson
Mar 15, 2025
Replying to @tomisin_ms
It was a traumatic event and the brain doesn't forget trauma
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@Viznelson
Jul 26, 2024
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@Viznelson
Sep 22, 2025
Growing up, I thought I was bisexual. Later, I felt maybe I was pansexual....... When it came to gender, I realized I hated being referred to as a man. Phrases like “be a man” or “don’t cry, be a man” never sat right with me. Because of that, I started wondering if I might be
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@Viznelson
Aug 5, 2024
Make government ban mondays 😩😩 I'll be a good wife I swear
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