I think I may be going to my local taco shop too often because I only ordered on Taco this morning instead of two and the lady was so confused she asked if I was okay. She even switched from Spanish to English she was so shocked.
My interaction:
The Grey Jedi
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And in Time, a New Hope Will Rise.
- One of the wildest experiences I've had since getting engaged is the judgment that my fiance and I have received about the ring that he chose for me. It doesn't have any gemstones or diamonds on it, he chose it because he knew it fit my aesthetic, and it's what he could afford
- Replying to @TwichellSydneyMe: un taco de frijoles y queso por favor Her: uno? Me: si. Her: UNO?? Me: SI Her: only one today?! Ma'am are you okay? You're actually eating right. Me:... I'm fine Gloria I promise I'm just not as hungry this morning ๐๐คฆ๐ผโโ๏ธ๐
- Replying to @TwichellSydneyBut for some reason people seem to think they have a right to tell me or my fiance that it's not good enough, that I deserve more, that he didn't do good enough, etc. and it just blows my mind that people have the audacity to even say anything at all.
- Replying to @CarissasNewLifeOnce had a doctor ignore my yes when I was 19 and my abusive ex was actively blowing up my phone during the entire appointment. The signs were there
- Replying to @TwichellSydneyYou're not wearing it, who do you think you are to say anything to me about a ring that I love and adore? Since then, we decided to splurge and we each got a ring for ourselves while we were in Mexico. And now I wear both rings.
- Replying to @TwichellSydneyBut it's astounding to me how differently I was treated after I got a ring with a gemstone versus the one I had before. This world is far too focused on material things. My fiance was treated as if he wasn't good enough for me, I was treated as if I was too vain to be with him
- Replying to @TwichellSydneyFor those curious: the first is the one he proposed with and the second was one out of two rings we got each other in Mexico. Both under $500 and both are precious to me. I wear both now lol and no one can stop me ๐
- It's like they think we actively shop for violent men as if they aren't also just people walking around in everyday society.
- Replying to @TwichellSydneyMuting this thread now because it's just blown up so much and I might just pop back in occasionally And to the people actively criticizing how I talk about this, or try to imply I'm not happy with the ring he chose because I'm being vocal on here about his experience: go away ๐
- Made a comment yesterday where I mentioned how frequently coma patients will suddenly end up pregnant. Now I have a TERF in my comments talking about how rare it is for a coma patient to get pregnant, while completely skipping over the fact that these women are being RAPED
- This sounds like the girl who wears a cream colored dress to a wedding and says "it's not white so it's okay" girl cream is in the white family go change ๐๐
- Replying to @TwichellSydneyHe's not upset I honestly said he spent what he could. He's not upset that I'm posting pictures. And he's not embarrassed to be with me because he wouldn't have proposed to me if he didn't like a vocal, outspoken woman that calls out bullshit societal pressures and norms.
- Replying to @Broken_DevotionDid you contact the clinic she was practicing at? Be interesting for them to know her behavior as a therapist...



