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You're in a far better position being behind, waiting for the right thing than being far ahead on the wrong path. Be patient, don't rush.
based on what you learned this year, what’s a piece of advice you would give to someone else?
Modumedi
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Modumedi
@TheeOnly_Shadi
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Johannesburg, South Africa
Joined November 2020
- Male friendships last because they are based on hedonism, are low risk and lack depth. Most of them rely on alcohol to get together and tend to avoid any confrontations to keep things kumbaya but on the low, they actually hate each other and compete with one another.Boy friendships last so long, what’s wrong with us girls? 😭💔
- Spending Christmas alone just indicates poor social skills. Like how do you not have anywhere to go? And it's usually those that put zero effort in family and romantic relationships, and friendships during the year! You reap what you sow 🤷🏽♀️
- Replying to @TheeOnly_ShadiOf course, they are going to defend their shallow and superficial friendships when all they do is talk about girls, sex, money, sports and cars.
GIF - There's just this growing phenomenon that's trying to “Americanize” SA! Because something is widely accepted there doesn't mean we have to do the same here. Culturally, America is a joke because everything immoral starts there! Why would anyone sensible look up to them?
- They hate because he is an outlier: a nerd, knowledgeable, disciplined, with a strong work ethic, good-looking, a rich cheese boy, charismatic. He easily embodies what a lot of men want for themselves but can't achieve because they lack the fortitude and discipline, so they hate.
- Y'all went over and above for Nomfundo because she's light skinned, but I guess that's not the conversation we're not going to have. 🌚💀
- MaMkhize and Andile really did a number on Sithelo! She’s been on a relentless quest to prove herself, and it seems like her determination won’t be waning anytime soon. She hasn't been the same since they blindsided her.
- Replying to @Musa_KhawulaI knew this would happen! People want the truth but will only accept the version of the truth that they want. As long as the truth doesn't align with the victim’s version of events, it will be rejected.
- Even men have a weird obsession with Edwin Sodi. They hate him but also wanna be like him LOL!
- What I am finding scary is that people are not dating for love anymore! It's purely transactional! When did we get here? 😭😭😭
- Replying to @KgosiKevinI don't have to be a man to know and understand male friendships dynamics. Anyone can form an opinion based on what they've seen, learned, and discussed with others
- Replying to @andrejones_ and @thisisroryNah, Joe a horrible friend, Rory needs to stay away. He doesn’t need all that toxicity!
