Men handle break ups badly. You’ll be like "Your clothes still here you gonna come get them?" she like "nah throw them away" you just sit there ready to vomit 😭😭😭😭😭. That was your last play.
Singlehood can be addictive. Your life follows a routine, and when someone tries to disrupt it by trying to be in your life, it feels like an inconvenience. More so for loners. Like, what do you mean we have to go out when I’m used to watching Two and half men all day
Maybe I’m oversensitive, but even if you're my boss, you’ll address me properly in a professional manner. You can’t shout at me like one of your kids. I’m not desperate enough for employment to tolerate disrespect. Even if I’m failing to meet expectations, address me properly
In relationships, I rarely concern myself with whether my partner is cheating on me or not. There is nothing you can do to control that. That level of paranoia is not healthy.
I don't think I'm set up to endure in an unhappy marriage or relationship. Some of our parents/grandparents thought otherwise and that's ok. Life is too short for you to be unhappy in a relationship. There are no medals or trophies passed out for enduring misery
Salary increases don’t hit as nice as that salary jump you get when you change jobs. At that moment, you swear all your problems are over. You start budgeting differently. 3 months into your new salary, you go back to that old rabbit hole.
As an adult, there's really no reason to find yourself in a social setting where you feel genuinely uncomfortable. Have your Uber money ready at all times. As an adult, your vex money has to be ready at all times. Vex money = Uber, flight, hotel money, etc.
I believe our phones are eavesdropping on us. Most manufacturers dispute it, yet these advertisements are not random. One minute you're having a random discussion, and the next thing you see is an ad about that conversation. Or random calls.
No one "ignores the elephant in the room and focus on a spider climbing the wall" better than African elders. They'll ignore molesting uncles and cheating husbands, but when it's time to talk about whether you greeted when you walked in, they'll show up like Avengers in Endgame
You go there all energetic to make an impact. They’ll drain all that energy from you. More especially when you're young. Now you're making enemies because they feel u think you're better, and you're trying to take their jobs. Now you're sick, and doctors don't know what you have
Human beings are exceedingly unreliable; as a result, one must constantly wean themselves off dependency. Always have options. You have to understand that people you trust will sometimes abuse the power you give them over you.
Abelungu want this country to fail really bad. The tricky thing is, they also can’t afford to live anywhere else. They somehow have this fantasy that the West will hand them back the country. The disinformation hurts their businesses as well.