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the goal is to spend my life giving and sharing love, laughter & food. (Dear Americans, I'm Nigerian, carry your racism & politics away from my tweets. thanks)
godisgoodavenue
Born June 3
Joined February 2011
- Lil sis came back with henna tattoo, mum's elder sis started shouting, saying it's an abomination,& added a lil of slut shaming. lil sis looked her in the eye and told her that she have 5 grandchildren living in her house & none of her kids are married. I can touch the silence
- Only women are asked to choose, men are expected to have both.
- Never refund cash that you weren't given. If he bought pizza and coke, refund in pizza and coke. Tell him to go to that exact place at an exact time like how a date happens, make the exact order you did and send you the bank details of the establishment.She is so real because men will pay for your pizza and a coke and think they are changing your life. Let me refund you broke boy
- There is no single woman in the bible who is celebrated, honoured, and remembered for cooking and housework. They were either resourceful, brave, killing enemies or saving their their people. Infact, when food/cooking occured in the bible, mostly, it's a man doing it.
- I stopped talking to a friend last year. When she relocated to Germany. I found how to use the internet to send her birthday gifts and stuffs for important occasions but in 2 years, she can't call our cake plug in the city we use to live in to send me a birthday cake.
- Nobody is preventing you from being a submissive housewife. Stop blaming feminism please. You can literally stop working, stay home with your children. But the reason you won't is because you know hunger, shame and abuse will wire you if your sustenance is on a man.
- Replying to @T_nsoforI enjoyed this because it cannot be me, I was beaten into submission as the first daughter, but the young ones are ferocious. Plus this is the quiet, head in a book, on a PhD path, pride of my mom daughter so it was so unexpected.
- The psychologists are right, Men really don't see the women in their families as human beings who deserve empathy and ease. Women are just tools that perform and work.Most of the women in my mother's generation had many children (5 or more), most were married and most had a job plus multiple side hustles like farming, sewing, shops etc and they still had time to raise children. This generation all you do is cry and blame men for your laziness.
- Men aren't dumb or stupid, they don't want Pearl,they want to take the Juilliard trained ballerina & make her dance in the field with the cows. There is no reason why she can't have dance, have a nanny & epidurals. The cruelty is the whole point -@from_data_to_dirt on tiktok
- When my mum started working, my dad said no, she left & went to find her way. They reconciled 3yrs after and when my dad died and the extended family started showing us shege, her successful law practice was why we didn't beg. Keep infantilizing yourself cos you have a husband.
- You can go your entire life not engaging in transactional sex, then you get married, and then you're having sex so he won't look outside, having sex for upkeep money, having sex to apologise, having sex for duty, having sex when you don't want to, having sex so he won't beat you.
- Guys, I met a lil boy named hellochukwu. His name literally means "hi God". I'm so mad at the parents
- Poor kids who are academically challenged also need scholarships and opportunities. We have to stop the culture of only supporting the smartest to the top
