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Fun fact: the sperm race isn’t really a race where the first sperm “wins”. This adaptation is to romanticise the process according to patriarchal standards.
The sperm that wins is the one that the egg makes its walls permeable to. This may not be the first to reach it.
Relationships aren't always easy. These are tips that I find myself commonly reiterating to myself, friends and/or clients. Just thought I'd share them:
Pregnancy is physically traumatic. If the product wasn’t a baby it would be seen as an extremely aggressive tumour that depletes your bodily resources. You have to be invasively torn apart to remove it. You should only have to go through that VOLUNTARILY.
I used to get bullied for this because I started peeling quite young and I was still in school, while most women start in their mid-20s. I was called a "snake whore". Kids can be really cruel but that's why awareness is needed, thanks for sharing this video ❤️
Overextending yourself doesn’t make people appreciate you more unfortunately. It makes them value your time and comfort a lot less. People-pleasing is a race to the bottom.